| Location | Belfast |
| Age | 89 years |
| Date of Birth | 5/1918 |
| Date of Death | 10/2007 |
| Visitors | 424 since 06/07/2007 |
| Creator |
Lucy was my mother in law and she had a full life and a family that loved her. She passed away on Mon 9th Oct probably with a pen in her hand because she loved her bingo. Love from Raymond Liz Julie and Donna xx
~~ Guardian Angel Kit ~~
You guardian angel knows that you are truly spectacular and you can achieve anything your heart desires. However, she also understands that life can become a little tough at times, so here's a little kit of things to help brighten you up when life gets a bit difficult...
A Smiley Face ~ Life is so much better when you have one
A Bag of Sparkles ~ For when you feel yours has gone
A Plaster ~ For when you hurt
A Paper Clip ~ To help hold things together
An Elastic Band ~ To remind you to stretch yourself
A Rubber ~ For when you just need to start again
A Button ~ For when you need to 'button your lips'
A Marble ~ For when you feel you've lost yours
XxX ~~ Love Always ~ Jane ~~ XxX
~~ Tear Soup - A Recipe For Healing After Loss ~~
HELPFUL INGREDIENTS TO CONSIDER:
A pot of tears
One heart willing to be broken open
A dash of bitterness
A bunch of good friends
Many handfuls of comfort food
A lot of patience
Buckets of water to replace the tears
Plenty of exercise
A variety of helpful reading material
Enough self care
Seasons with memories
Optional: One good therapist, for example GONE TOO SOON
DIRECTIONS:
Choose the size of pot that fills your loss
It's okay to increase the pot size if you have miscalculated
Combine ingredients
Set temperature for a moderate heat
Cooking time depending on the ingredients needed
Strong flavours mellow over time
Cook no longer than you need to
SUGGESTIONS:
Be creative
Trust your instincts
Cry when you want to
Laugh when you can
Freeze some to use as a starter next time
Write your own journal so you won't forget
SERVES ONE
Thinking of you always ~~ Love Jane...x♥x
I cannot dial your number
I can't get through to you
I called the operator
She did all that she could do
There is no code to heaven
I cannot place the call
No numbers left to try
I reckon i've tried them all
If heaven had a phone
I'd ring it every day
If heaven had a phone
Theres things I want to say
Tell you that I love you
Miss you since you went away
And how much I prayed to god
That he could have let you stay
Oh darling, if heaven had a phone
Theres things I want to know
Things I want to tell you
How do you feel?
Should I stay or should I go?
Are you looking over me
Do you see me cry a tear
Questions I want to ask
Answers I need to hear
If heaven had a phone
I'd ring it every day
My life has had no meaning
Since the day god took you away
I only know more sadness
More tears again today
Maybe one day i'll smile without you
Until then I will always cry
One day the sun may shine for me
Like it did for you and I
My life was for tomorrow
Now my life is yesterday
I cannot face this world alone
Please show me the way
If heaven had a phone
I'd ring you every day
If heaven had a phone
I'd hear your voice, know that you're okay
I just want to speak to heaven
please do you have a direct line
Operator says no number
But your loved one says they're doing fine
Love & BIG (((HUGS))) ~~ Jane...x♥x
I cannot ease your aching heart
nor take your pain away
but let me stay and take your hand
and walk with you today
I'll listen when you need to talk
i'll wipe away your tears
i'll share your worries when they come
i'll help you face your fears
I'm here and I will stand by you
on each hill we have to climb
so take my hand lets face the world
and live just one day at a time
You are not alone for I am here
i'll go that extra mile
and when our grief is easier
together we can maybe learn to smile
Love Always ~~ Jane...x♥x
missing u
Hi Lucy,jst been on Raymond's page n left him a wee comment. Hope ur avin fun up thr n wtchin dwn on us all. Luv n miss u always, Kelly, Philip n all ur great grand children.xoxoxo
When you look into the sky
and see a shining star
think of me and send a kiss
i'm never very far
When you see the moonlight
dancing on the sea
feel a kiss brush on your cheek
thats a kiss from me
When the sun is bright upon the fields
and there's flowers everywhere
if you look a little closer
you'll see me over there
When the snow is falling hard
and sparkling on the ground
feel the flakes upon your face
and know that i'm around
when you see a glistening raindrop
or the grass all covered in dew
don't let your heart feel heavy
just remember 'I LOVE YOU'
Love ~ Hugs ~ Kisses ~~ Jane...x♥x
Little did we know that morning
god was going to call your name
in life we loved you dearly
in death we do the same...
It broke our hearts to lose you
but you did not go alone
for part of us went with you
the day god called you home...
You left us peaceful memories
your love is still our guide
and though we cannot see you
you are always by our side...
Our family chain is broken
and nothing seems the same
but as god calls us one by one
the chain will link again...
Always In My Thoughts ~~ Love Jane...x♥x
~~ Teardrop of Rememberance ~~
When at first you left
the tears I cried poured from
a well of grief inside
this well seemed so deep, so dark
it stripped my spirit bare
I bathed in constant tears
that could not sooth my souls despair
awash with tears of grief
I lookes to the heavens above
and saw a light so very close
this light gave way to thoughts of you
sweet memories to hold forever dear
now tears flow from joy and love
and warm my heart with tenderness from above
I cry a tear a tear of rememberance today
because you were special to me in every way
~~~ I will always love you ~~~
Love ~ Hugs ~ Kises ~~ Jane...x♥x
I looked towards the clouds today
and for a moment saw your face
I wondered just where you have gone
with hope it's a better place
did you show yourself to me today
to tell me you're alright
or was it just a daydream
playing tricks upon my sight...
We will always feel the void inside
because you are not here
but each new thought you send our way
lets us know you are near
so until our journey nears it's end
and we hear the angels sing
we'll face each new day as it comes
and live off the love you bring...
Love Always ~~ Jane...x♥x
Light a candle for those we mourn
into a new life they will be born
do not look for them at the gravesite
they are somewhere else radiating their beautiful light
they have gone into a new world
where there is no darkness, no pain
their light and essence will always remain...
Light a candle for thode who have left this mortal place
they are free to travel through time and space
when we think of them, they are near
when we sit in a beautiful garden, their voices we hear
when we listen to a divine symphony
we close out eyes, their faces we see...
Light a candle for they have not really gone
with each flickering flame, in your hearts
they will always belong...
Love Always ~~ Jane...x♥x
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